i am a japanese person here to confirm that yes she is trans if you watch the episode and know everything being said there is literally no question that she is trans. the fact that she is trans is also relevant to the plot/her death. any “trans jokes” made in the episode only further emphasized how “Masao” was not a fitting name for her at all, and how she truly is Lily, always will be, and tbh, always has been. there’s no “liberty with the subtitles” japan has an LGBTQ community and I won’t stand for these ignorant westerners erasing that.
Watching this made me physically feel like I’d just been chasing someone with answers for a quest through a series of alleys and they went through a door into a house and when I opened the same door to pursue them it was pitch black and I stumbled into the darkness for a moment before this guy appeared and I saw this video in a vision he gave me with his powers and when it ended I was standing alone in an empty room, my target long gone.
Doms can deal with mental illnesses, like depression or anxiety
Doms need aftercare
Doms are valid even if they don’t act dominant or leading 24/7
Doms have feelings, too, and are allowed to show them
Doms need to trust their sub, as much as the other way around
Doms might get triggered during sessions
Doms can get mentally or physically abused by their sub (!!!!)
Doms might need the care of their sub sometimes
Doms are HUMAN and therefor you – as a sub – shouldn’t shame them for being exactly that, just because in your fantasy you always imagined a dom to be a certain way and act certain way. You – as a sub – need to accept that sometimes your fantasy is exactly just that, and it’d be abusive and unhealthy to force that image onto a real human being.
Doms like to be in control, we like to do it sexually and sometimes also in a not sexual way. But we are still humans. We have needs and insecurities, and as a sub you should always accept these and take care of your dom, and never force them to do something they don’t feel comfortable with.
We always talk about abusive doms and fake doms – it’s time we face the cruel truth that there are plenty of abusive and fake subs.
*banging pots and pans together* i have no time for men who jerk off over me and reblog all this “bbw” content but refuse to date and be seen with a fat woman in public. either you want a fat girl or u don’t. we deserve better than to be your “guilty little secret” and your masturbation aide
Dama Cherepaha 