Boys being so desperate to touch you, especially when they are actually already touching you with their hands or mouth or whatever is up there with God’s Greatest Hits of Life…..like, when they furrow their brow in a combo of frustration and desperation…..when they grab handfuls of you tightly and make unsatisfied moans because they can’t get enough of you even though you’re right there…the desperation not even subsiding when they get what they want…that’s desire babey….
You don’t have to do anything sexual that you’re not interested in. Moreover, you don’t have to explain why. “No” is a complete sentence.
Not interested in getting pegged? You don’t have to. Monogamous and not into the idea of another partner? Okay. Not sure about period sex? Cool.
And if your partner decides to question or mock your maturity or your masculinity or your sexuality because you say no? It’s time to re-evaluate the relationship. See if you don’t deserve better than that.
yes, female health professionals (like all women) are also capable of perpetuating sexism.
if you are perceived female, requesting that female professionals handle your care is a useful wayto lower the odds that medical gender bias will get in the way of your treatment.