Men: Your Consent Matters Too

dirtythingsthatturnmeonposts:

bone-and-brawn:

Fellas, listen.

You don’t have to do anything sexual that you’re not interested in. Moreover, you don’t have to explain why. “No” is a complete sentence.

Not interested in getting pegged? You don’t have to.
Monogamous and not into the idea of another partner? Okay.
Not sure about period sex? Cool.

And if your partner decides to question or mock your maturity or your masculinity or your sexuality because you say no? It’s time to re-evaluate the relationship. See if you don’t deserve better than that.

☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️

saxifraga-x-urbium:

greenycrimson:

bluemoonygirl:

titaniumvulpes:

bluemoonygirl:

titaniumvulpes:

princesscirce:

1977punk:

tfw you start making pancakes and then realize you don’t have any eggs and your life is ruined as a result 

You can use bananas as an egg substitute in pancakes I’m pretty sure it’s half a banana for each egg or something

You can also use blood but I wouldn’t recommend that tbh.

Does this help ?

DAMN LÉ BACK AT IT AGAIN WITH THE GREAT RESOURCES.

I have a vegan friend ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

If you want pancakes and don’t have any eggs then you can make some using this mix–

1 cup plain flour*

2 tablespoons baking powder* (if you have self raising flour you can use 1 cup of that instead of the plain and the baking powder)

1 tablespoon sugar

Pinch salt

1 cup milk (plant or dairy)

2 tablespoons vegetable oil

Mix dry ingredients together in bowl. Whisk in wet ingredients until you have a smooth batter. Pour ladelfuls of batter into a hot oiled pan and fry.

I note no one said how much blood to use

biggest-gaudiest-patronuses:

biggest-gaudiest-patronuses:

biggest-gaudiest-patronuses:

honestly i have saved a lot of hassle by specifically requesting to be treated by female medical professionals whenever possible

to clarify

  • there are plenty of good (and mediocre, and lousy) medical professionals of any gender. 
  • institutional sexism is a big problem in healthcare. big problem. huge. also racism & other types of discrimination. women and minorities are statistically likely to receive worse care.
    • yes, female health professionals (like all women) are also capable of perpetuating sexism.
  • if you are perceived female, requesting that female professionals handle your care is a useful way to lower the odds that medical gender bias will get in the way of your treatment. 

and here’s an article on how statistically female doctors have better patient outcomes & lower mortality rates (no matter the gender of the patient). the patients with the highest mortality rates? women treated by male doctors. one reason for this: female practitioners tend to spend more time listening to their patients, and are less likely to dismiss patient concerns

the final takeaway: whatever the gender, find a doctor who listens.

please reblog this version so people don’t get defensive. i’m not bashing on men, this is based on personal experience, research, and genuine concern.