subby-siren:

I think what I’ve always really liked about gentle femdom stuff as opposed to hardcore bdsm stuff(and don’t get me wrong I like that stuff too sometimes) is that gentle femdom comes from a place of care. Like, in porn it’s always about the dom being bored or even angry with the sub for no reason other than the fact that they’re a sub, and that’s always kinda bugged me. I love gentle femdom because it’s just. It comes from this place of care. The dom cares enough about you to tie you up and tease you, to make you beg, to make you hers. She cares enough to set rules and punish you for breaking them. She cares enough to kiss and cuddle you better when the session is done. And you as the sub care enough to devote yourself completely to her. It’s a dynamic I really really love. I love the idea of loving someone and being loved enough to have such a sincerely devoted relationship with them.