ladysaye:

It’s not about doing it rough, it’s not humiliating him, it’s not about him being a sissy

Au contraire!

It’s about trust. Intimacy. Vulnerability. Mutual pleasure. About letting go – and being able to let go because you trust your partner.

She tops him, but that doesn’t make him less masculine. The fact that this alpha male can surrender and enjoy what she does to him is irrisitably sexy and arousing.

THAT is what gentle femdom is all about.